Enthusiasm is the nature of life.
We often have a tendency to put cold water on the other’s enthusiasm. Reverse
this tendency. Take every opportunity to praise others and support their
enthusiasm. If you put down other’s enthusiasm, the same may happen to you. As
you sow, so shall you reap? Recollect how much enthusiasm and joy you had when
you went to the primary school. Someone without enthusiasm is like a corpse.
But as you mature, the enthusiasm curve declines. As enthusiasm declines, we
stop communicating.
How would you like to see yourself?
Happy and bubbling with enthusiasm or dull and difficult to please? Often, you
like to be pleased, appeased and cajoled. So you put up a tough, upset face and
act difficult to please. If a person has to appease and please ten people all
the time, it will be so tiring. People who keep a long face and expect others
to cajole and appease them make others run away. As Lovers often do this, they
expend a lot of energy in cajoling, and this brings down the joy and celebration
of the moment.
If you feel down, appease and
please yourself. You need to be appeased by someone else is the sign of
grossness. If you want attention, all you get is tension. It is not possible to
attain Divine Love with a complaining face.
Become one whose enthusiasm never
dies.
Praising is a Divine quality
never fail to praise others, it will boost up their energy and make them feel
good. When you praise other's eventually that quality kindles in you and when
you criticise others after sometime you will become the carrier of that bad
habit or quality. Whenever you feel that a particular action or thing is wrong
and it's bothering you then, just go that person makes him aware about it and
then let go. Don't keep on pondering about it for the rest of your day. Educate
and Ignore is yet another best policy, then one should adapt to it.
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